Fini
23.06.2011
13 °C
Has the end of our trip really come?
Bizarre to think about, so for now I won't, and instead will update you on the rest of our stay in Paris. Breakfast came the next morning and we got chatting to two guys from South California, a theatre teacher called Joey and a guy our age called Austin - the first person we've befriended our own age! Definitely some of our favourite people from this trip, they were so interesting and talking with Joey made us realise that IB Theatre was actually an incredible course and we know a LOT about theatre. He had a degree in theatre and was obviously now teaching it but we both felt like we could converse with him about it without embarrassing ourselves.
As I've said, Jill and I have both been to Paris numerous times before, but one thing I have never done is kissed Oscar Wilde's grave. After breakfast, in the pouring rain, we walked to the Pere Lachaise cemetery to pay our tributes to some of the greatest minds, including Moliere, Edith Piaf, Victor Hugo, and of course Oscar. It was raining SO hard. Our raincoats became saturated and useless while our map of the cemetery turned to pulp. We gave up on our route and just headed straight for Oscar, who was covered in lipstick kisses and nail varnish hearts and general graffiti of quotes and thank you messages. Neither of us had lipstick but I had some nail polish so I added a heart
Made me remember a book of his complete works I saw in Waterstones. Definitely going to try and get that online somewhere.
It was raining so heavily at this point that it was ridiculous to try and do the rest of our plan which had been to walk along the river and see all the traditional sights that we've both seen before, so we headed back to our hostel and had some supermarket lunch. We then met a father and son from Northern California, Larry and Chayne, and after a half hour or so Joey and Austin wandered in from the rain as well! We bought some wine and sat around exchanging stories. At about four, the sky brightened up so we took the metro to the Eiffel Tower and picnicked (is that the right spelling?) underneath it, which was so lovely. Coincidentally and at different times, Jill and I have both passed out at the top of the Eiffel Tower, so we decided not to bother queueing this time. From the tower we walked towards the Arc de Triomphe and down the Champs Elysees, through the Tuileries and to the Louvre before getting the metro back. So eventually we did see everything we had planned to see on that day, just a little later, which was good because it was definitely less busy. We stayed up late last night talking about theatre and ambitions and it was just interesting how such a diverse group in terms of ages, backgrounds and priorities can get on so well. I've also been thinking about how strange it is that we have SOLELY befriended men on this trip. I think this is mostly because we have met NO girls our own age travelling, and women in their 20s tend to be a bit more condescending and unwilling to talk to teenagers than men in their 20s. We also met no British girls. The women we have met because the guys we were with met them were American, annoying and affected and weren't interested in learning about us.
Today we were window shopping at the Galeries Lafayette, amongst posh middle aged Parisian women who looked us up and down like we had no place being there. Little bit annoying seeing as it was eleven o clock on a Thursday morning, these women evidently didn't work and were just spending hubby's money. Of course I'd love to be wealthy enough to perhaps make an occasional purchase from the Lafayette but I would want it to be with money that I earnt. Just saying.
How odd to be packed up and ready to go home! How odd that we have to go back to school and go through the motions of Speech Day, Hampers, family birthday celebration, seeing the Hockerill lot again and then waiting for results. I think I'm in a bit of a daze about it and not really knowing what to expect.
Those of you who know me well will know how I love to list things, make lists, etc. So I thought, what better way to end the blogging experience than with some lists? We've thought up some good ones:
Six things we have learned from this trip
- Youth hostels are not always full of the youth.
- Eastern Europe is still dodgy.
- People who give directions are wrong 90% of the time.
- Women are irritating and unapproachable.
- Adults tell you 'nothing is free' but they are wrong. When you are young, a lot of stuff is free if you get up and ask for it.
- All the national stereotypes are completely accurate. Except the idea that British youth are the most badly behaved. On this trip we have encountered many school trips aged 14-15 and the Germans are definitely the worst. Or the French.
Five ways to save money on a budget
- Buy food from Lidl instead of restaurants. Make it yourself.
- ASK for discounts. Student discounts or free entries aren't advertised but are usually there.
- The bread and water on restaurant tables in Europe is very rarely free. Ask before you tuck in.
- If you see a free toilet, use it. You have to pay to use the loo in a lot of places.
- Have a birthday at some point on the trip and stay with generous friends who pay for everything? ![]()
Three ways in which Abbey irritated Jillian
- She made fun of me a LOT. E.g. every time I needed to pee.
- We would make a decision to be ugly for the day but then she would change her mind and put makeup on without telling me.
- She thought of three ways when I could only think of TWO.
Three ways in which Jillian irritated Abbey
- Absolutely no sense of direction. None. We could go from A to B five or six times and she would have no idea how to get there by herself.
- Money. I thought we could do the whole 'I pay for this now, you pay for something else later' thing but if you owe her TEN CENTS, she writes a little memo to herself on her hand and reminds me repeatedly throughout the day
when we buy groceries, paying has to be split exactly in half etc. On the other hand, if you pay for something by yourself, she considers it YOURS and is reluctant to take any of it - a packet of crisps or something like that.
- When she's in a bad mood, she doesn't speak. She communicates entirely in body language, shrugs and nods that 50% answer the question and 50% say 'I HATE YOU, GO AND DIE ALONE'
Reasons these things didn't matter
- Because everything was absolutely hilarious, especially each other.
- Because Abbey let Jillian use her iPod all the time since she doesn't have one.
- Because Jillian did Abbey's arm whenever she asked.
- Because we never ran out of interesting conversation.
- Because we're good friends, and we know how to read each other's moods and gauge what might be a little too far at a particular time.
- Because we drank a lot of wine on this trip.
Members of society we now despise
- People who walk quickly in train stations.
- People who walk s l o w l y in train stations.
- People who haven't dressed for the weather.
- People who judge us for not dressing for the weather.
- Everyone older than us.
- Everyone younger than us.
- Everyone our age.
- People who have their screaming babies in youth hostels and can't control them.
- People who are very comfortable with nudity in communal bathrooms etc.
- Anyone who wants to sell us anything.
- Men.
- Women.
- Children.
- Slovenians.
- People with no spatial awareness.
- People who stand VERY CLOSE BEHIND YOU at a ticket machine, tutting and trying to move you along.
- People who take FOREVER at a ticket machine.
- Loud people.
- People who think we're too loud.
- People who don't understand that carrying a 65 litre rucksack means I need more space than you.
- People who judge us for eating fast food while travelling.
Thank you SO SO MUCH to everyone who has read this blog, especially those who have been reading since the beginning. I hope at some point in the near future I can travel and blog again and I will have the same lovely readers I have had for the last month. You have all filled me with confidence about my writing and I have just loved reading all your comments and messages so much!
I have learnt so much from this trip, as I knew I would, and I feel there are certain parts of me, some of my values and priorities and thoughts, that have changed for good. I hope my writing has improved, I hope I am more independent and more approachable and more interested in other people. I hope I am less lazy and better at reading a map and have a better appreciation of money and food (and how the two affect each other haha).
Looking forward to seeing you all again tomorrow or at Speech Day!
Lots, lots, lots of love and some wanderlust a little satisfied,
Abbey x
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